
A deep level of understanding
The understanding level that you both share cannot be surpassed. After knowing each other for so long, you’re way past the stage of arguing about silly things like who ate lunch without whom, or why calls were unanswered. Even better, he won’t bat an eyelid at any of your quirkiest (or dorkiest) habits that make others cringe. In fact, he’d probably think it adorable.

He’s already seen you get angry
When a relationship starts with you both being friend first, he already knows how you react when you’re mad. Whether you cry or throw things, he’s more likely to understand how you behave and this will probably help you both get over this bout of bad temper faster and smoothen things out fast.

The past hardly matters to him
When it’s your best friend, chances are you won’t feel self-conscious about sharing details of your past. In fact, it’s more likely he already knows all your secrets and even better, doesn’t judge you. You have probably met each other ex’s, cried over them and have moved on. Now you can just concentrate on each other.

You can happily share secrets
The drunken hook-ups, sharing your wildest fantasies, random crushes on teachers – you can share absolutely anything with each other without feeling you will be judged as you might with someone who don’t know as well or for as long. Not only are your secrets safe but it can actually work to bring you guys even closer to each other.

You can be each other’s best critic
He can give you the best advice as both, a friend and a boyfriend. And when you need that bit of constructive criticism, he’s right there and you know that he only wants what’s best for you. After all, the best person to offer up judgement is the one who know you best and he certainly fits the bill and vice versa. And the support you guys can give each other would be awesome.

Respect is a key component
Respect is the key to successful relationships. This takes time to build and with your best friend you’re already there. Knowing that the other person has immense respect for your values, morals and principles makes a huge difference to how well a relationship does. And how long it lasts.
Written by Shraddha Mehta on 1st Oct 2014